Meredith, Was listing to the show yesterday! Just because you're becoming a mom doesn't mean you can't still have fun and be yourself. Keep your piercing(s) and continue to dye your hair, be you! Your baby will love you no matter what,plus you be teaching him or her to follow their passion regardless of what others think. Lazlo, shame on you for for telling her to change, plain is boring and she's perfect the way she is!